We already explained in this article here, that letting your man initiate sex all the time, and refusing to take the lead is not good enough. You need to learn to take the bull by the horn. And this is not something to begrudgingly do occasionally or once in a blue moon.
Just do it. Boldly.
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Not only does this make your partner feel desired, it also allows for variety and spontaneity in the way you go about meeting each other’s sexual needs.
So just it is important to understand why you should initiate sex, it is also necessary to know how to do it and do it in a way that really pleases and hits the mark at all times.
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7 ways to initiate sex and drive your man crazy
According to men [off Reddit] who are on the receiving end of these seductive moves, here are the best ways to initiate sex:
1. Initiate when he least expects it
I was always a fan of catching me when I least expect it. Kinda just come into the room and start getting undressed sort of thing. [/u/maybeluke]
2. Boldly go for it
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Earlier, my wife and I were just hanging out, kissing and talking about stuff when she started rubbing my dick through my pants and suggested we go to the guest room. I could not have been more thrilled.
When it's totally unprompted by me, that is hot as hell. [/u/VincentGrayson]
3. Be spontaneous, babe!
When she randomly jumps on me or straddles me. I like it when she takes control. [/u/Goatsonice]
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4. Get handsy
If she wants to initiate it's pretty simple. Rub on me, put your hands on my chest, kiss my neck, run fingers through my hair. Do the things that make me feel like you can't keep your hands off of me, and feel free to be pull clothes (yours and mine) off while you do it. [/u/TheDarkHorse83]
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5. Short skirts, long nights
If she's wearing a short skirt and either bends over in front of me or sits on me. [/u/Raenryong]
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6. Seduction always wins
When she seduces me. I prefer to be the dominant one in the bedroom, so I love it when she begs, and/or tells me how much she's craving me, how much she loves my d**k, how wants to give me head, etc. [/u/Anotherside714]
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7. That dirty talk
If she groped/fondled, whispered dirty stuff in my ear, and/or just wrapped herself around me. Or wake me up with it, ya know.. There are probably more ways... [/u/Ingetfunkarfan]
